1. ThaiCupid.com
With a membership database of 1.5 million, and a whopping 70% of the female online Thai dating network, if I were to enter the Thai dating world now, ThaiCupid would be my first choice.
Operated by Cupidmedia, a company that owns many other dating sites in a broad range of ethnic niches, TC is probably the most well known dating site for foreign men seeking Thai women.
It has been going for over 10 years.
If you want a broad selection of genuine women with a decent job, 21-40 years old, this site is a good place to begin.
On my most recent visit I found 2,136 people online, and over 1,000 active profiles for the aforementioned age group.
Like all dating sites, functionality is restricted to the membership you have.
Thai Cupid is free to join, but with free you can only send 1 message every 15 minutes and you won't be able to message all members (some have restricted profiles that only paid members can view).
This is a tad frustrating because you have to wait for the response too. But hey, it's free! Send a message, make a cup of tea..then repeat.
Free membership won't get you video chat either, which is a great feature to use once you've established a connection with someone.
The better your membership level also determines how far up in the search results your profile will appear; so bear in mind that those extra few dollars can make a big difference to your success.
One great feature of ThaiCupid is the translation service that comes with the Gold package ($34.99 per month / or $69.99 for 3 months – that's less than a dollar a day).
This translates messages for both parties, preventing cross wires and assisting in breaking down the language barrier.
For higher profile visibility, unlimited message sending and video messaging capability, go Platinum ($39.99 a month / or $79.99 per month – that's still less than a dollar a day)
The paid plans aren't expensive when you think of it on a day-to-day basis:
Gold:
- 1 month – $34.99 / £23.33
- 3 months – $69.99 / £46.66 (Good value at less than a dollar a day)
- 12 months – $139.99 / £93.33 (Best value at less than 0.50 Cents a day)
Platinum:
- 1 month – $39.99 / £27.49
- 3 months – $79.99 / £54.99 (Good value at less than a dollar a day)
- 12 months – $159.99 / £109.99 (Best value at less than 0.50 Cents a day)
For everything in Gold, plus video messaging capability, go Platinum. For an extra few dollars I'd say it's worth it to be able to communicate face-to-face with a potential dream date!
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2. ThaiFriendly.com
ThaiFriendly.com has gained solid popularity among the expat community and overseas seekers over the last few years, growing to a huge 1M+ members.
The site is popular because it caters for a slightly different crowd to ThaiCupid.
By that I mean you a broader cross-section of women, such as younger women (think uni students and singles in the city) seeking a bit more of a “fun” relationship, rather than those women of an age where settling down is a priority.
I always think approaching dating too seriously can land you in as much hot water as going in too loosely, so to speak.
Searching around I got the distinct feeling a few of the profiles I saw were women playing away from home, which may well appeal to some.
I’d certainly give ThaiFriendly a bash, if not just because it’s a fun place to socialize and make “special friends”.
ThaiFriendly is free to register and there's no obligation for a paid membership. You can begin sending messages straight away, but bear in mind that to begin chatting on instant messenger and have live chats you'll need to upgrade.
The pricing structure hasn't changed much in the last 5 years. It operates a simple, flat rate fee, which is reflective of its overall “easy-going” vibe.
- Option A) $24.95 for a 30-day membership
- Option B) $49.95 for a 3-month membership
- Option C) $69.95 for 6 month
- Option D) $99.95 for a 1-year (365-day) membership
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3. AsianDating.com
AsianDating is often overlooked because people head straight to ThaiCupid. But don’t forget that Thai women live over the world, and indeed there are great women of other South East Asian origin living in Thailand, too.
If you are seeking to start a long-distance relationship, you might also do well to consider Asian Dating.
This site has a good global reach, so you might meet an Asian lady in your home country, Thailand, or a country other than Thailand.
By nature, this makes AsianDating a place with a diverse membership and some fantastic single women to chat with.
Like sister site ThaiCupid, Asiandating is also owned by CupidMedia, and is very popular with expats living in Thailand, Singapore, Malaysia, and China, and also guys living in the US and UK.
If you want to open your mind beyond Thai women, you’ll find a lot of women on here from the Philippines, China, Malaysia, and Indonesia.
The membership pricing and functions unlocked by upgrading from free to a paid plan is essentially the same as ThaiCupid but a bit cheaper.
Gold:
- 1 month – $29.99
- 3 months – $59.99
- 12 months – $119.99
Platinum:
- 1 month – $34.99
- 3 months – $69.99
- 12 months – $149.99
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4. MyLadyBoyDate
If Thailand's third gender is your preference, MyLadyBoyDate is the platform for you.
There are ladyboys from all over the world on the site but predominately from Asia, mostly Thailand and the Philippines.
The owners of the site (a couple – man and ladyboy) take the business very seriously and are hot on keeping the site for serious members only.
It's actually free for transgender woman, which naturally has resulted in a large membership base (110k members).
The fact that men have to pay has created a barrier for entry and means that only serious members gain access, and probably the reason so many relationship have emerged from this dating site.
- 110,000+ profiles (rigorously screened)
- Instant messaging feature
- Compatible with smartphones and tablets
- Safe and discreet
You can read an in depth MyLadyBoyDate review here.
Premium membership is $29.90 per month, with advantageous discounts if you buy several months.
=> Click Here to Visit MyLadyBoyDate <=
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4 Secret Dating Tips…
Research shows that the secret to success in online dating is to aim high, keep it brief and persevere (2).
- Send lots of messages: keep persevering
- Aim high: set your bar high, even if you think a person is out of your league, go for it.
- Keep it brief: don't send people essays, keep communication to the point
- Be patient: women, especially, tend not to rush in. So be patient and be prepared to play a long game.
I wish you the best of luck with your search for a wonderful Thai lady, and believe me there are loads out there.
Remember: people seldom spend time writing about how great their relationship is, which means you tend only to read about the bad experiences online.
Thai women are generally fabulous people. Trust me, I know, I married one!
If you met your partner on a Thai dating site, please feel free to share your experiences in the comments section below so that you can help others do the same.
I wish you all the best with your search for a great Thai lady, and believe me there are loads out there.
Remember: people seldom spend time writing about how great their relationship is, which means you tend only to read about the bad experiences online.
Thai women on the whole are like most women, amazing! Trust me, I know – I married one.
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Here's some additional tips for you…
The 3 Rules of Thai Dating Websites [Essential]
There has been a rise in the popularity and number of Thai dating sites in the last two years, the majority centered, unsurprisingly, on western men meeting Thai women.
Whether this is because Thai women are increasing in popularity or whether they are becoming increasingly web savvy isn't clear.
But one thing is for sure, you should be as cautious about the online dating process in Thailand as you would in your own country.
You should make sure you’re well informed before you start out, not just about the types of women you’re likely to come across, but also the size of membership, cost and service of each site – which is why I laid all the stats and info out for you above in my list.
While you should be cautious, don’t be fearful.
I’ve met many western guys who met their partner on Thai dating sites, and highly recommend this avenue over nightclubs, bars and introductions, which often turn into a nightmare. I also know many well-educated, professional Thai women active on these sites.
It’s not just those looking for a relationship that can benefit from Thai dating sites, either. Many men traveling on business or coming for a holiday in the region find a date for their visit through this channel.
These rules apply to dating sites across the board. It’s common sense, but worth reminding yourself all the same, before you get carried away with the thousands of potential partners you’re about to be viewing.
1. Engage with the person you're interested in over a good month or two before arranging a meet. This gives you time to be confident that they are who they say they are.
2. Never send money to someone you have never met, no matter the excuse they give. There are scammers in every country, and Thailand is no exception.
3. Don’t give out your home phone number or address until you have met the person, or at least Skyped and had a face-to-face conversation.
How to Avoid Bargirls on Thai Dating Sites
Like any other single woman, many bar girls – both those having play for money and those solely working in the entertainment industry as a dancer or hostess – are looking for a partner.
So yes, it is likely you’ll occasionally come across such women on dating sites.
You may be able to identify such women by their working hours, or the fact that they say they don’t work yet still have the cash to sign up for a premium membership.
Be aware that many that some of these girls may be serial daters and probably have a man in every port, so to speak. Some may not work the bars and may just be dating-savvy; hooking a sugar daddy here and there.
Ladies of the night usually have a reasonable command of broken English (or “barglish” as it’s called), yet no education past the age of 15 to justify a formal education in the language.
Such women are also likely to have children from previous relationships: married off young in the village and left with children by an abusive/alcoholic/gambling husband. This is a very common truth, which I wrote about here.
This may not be an issue for you and, depending on what you’re looking for, you may not mind what a person does for a living, or whether they have dependents or other guys in their life.
However, I think it’s a good idea to be clear on the type of woman you are looking for before you start, and the type you don't want. That way you can spot the traits in a person that you want to avoid.
The last thing you want is to end up dating a woman who is solely seeking financial support for her family, and isn’t genuinely interested in what you’re looking for.
Start off on the right foot and seek a woman that shares your interests, values and intentions.
Can I Find Women Just Looking for Fun?
You can, yes. If you don't mind paying and want a quick service while in Thailand then Smooci is the best option.
If you've got some time to put into flirting online, with a view to meeting up, try Thaifriendly.
That said, if you do see a profile advertising a “bit of fun” on TF, you will at least have to entertain the lady over dinner and possibly pay for the privilege.
If you're a little bit more serious about dating and you're on a quest to find “the one”, I recommend ThaiCupid, as a large number of the profiles on there are looking for a proper relationship. A lot of guys meet a future wife on there.
Whatever type of romance you're seeking, take care and have fun.
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